THE BLOG.

Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Christy Narsi

Our world is cluttered with words—emails, text messages, billboards, the media, family members, followers, or constituents.

Everyone is trying to communicate something but not everyone connects.

And connection is the superpower every influential leader must master.

Why Connection Outperforms Communication

We’ve Been Taught This Verse Backward

​Emails. Texts. Notifications. Media narratives. Team demands. Family pressures. Social feeds. We’ve all been drowned in communication.

​Everywhere you turn, someone wants to say something. So the real skill isn’t speaking—it’s connection that sticks.

​John C. Maxwell defines connection this way:

​“Connecting is the ability to identify with people and relate to them in a way that increases your influence with them.”

​That’s the art.
That’s the differentiator.
That’s the secret weapon great leaders sharpen daily.

It’s not enough to just be articulate. Many a dictator throughout history has been articulate.​

Every Person You Lead Is Asking Three Questions

Whether you’re serving constituents, running a company, leading a school, or mentoring a team or family, every person you interact with is silently asking:

  • Do you care about me?
  • Can you help me?
  • Can I trust you?

If they can’t answer yes to those three questions, your message won’t have impact—no matter how polished, persuasive, or well-packaged it is.

​Connection is what flips the switch from “I hear you” to “I’m listening.”

Four Practical Ways To Strengthen Your Influence Through Genuine Connection

Leadership influence is relational and touches the heart.

1. Think of yourself less so you can think of others more.
Not self-erasure—self-awareness.
Focus less on performance, more on presence.

2. Move from your own world into their world.
People open up when they feel understood.
Honestly step into their context before expecting them to step into yours.

3. Be interested enough to ask real questions.
Curiosity is a leadership advantage.
Ask, listen, and let people feel like partners—not projects.

4. Make sure they know you’re genuinely grateful for them.
Gratitude disarms defensiveness and builds trust faster than any title, résumé, or strategy ever could.

And here’s the truth most leaders learn the hard way:
You will never maximize your influence if you don’t connect with others.
Position may open the door.
Connection keeps you in the room.

Your Leadership Presence Starts the Moment You Walk In

Every room you walk into—boardroom, classroom, kitchen table, community meeting—is an opportunity to connect, influence, and lead well.

Don’t waste it.
Lean in.
Ask the questions.
Listen deeper than you speak.
Watch what happens.

When you connect first, your influence multiplies.
When you lead with presence, your message lands.
When people feel seen, they follow with trust—not reluctance.

This is the art great leaders master.
And it’s one you can strengthen starting today.

If You’re Ready for More Support in This Area…

I mentor leaders across the movement—women and men—on clarity, communication, and leadership presence.

​And for women stepping into high-pressure lanes, I run UnstoppableXX, a mentorship space built specifically for female civic leaders, executives, and founders who want to lead with strength, strategy, and conviction.

​If someone came to mind as you read this, feel free to share it with them.
Great leaders build other great leaders—and connection is where that starts.​

If this message hit home, you’ll love my book From Prosperity to Providence—a bold, truth-telling guide to disentangle success and suffering so you can get life to work!
​www.prosperitytoprovidence.com

Hey there. I'm Christy.

I back women who are done watching the world burn while being told to “just journal about it".

Women like you who are done with the fluff, built for the fight, and ready to rebuild what culture broke.

Whether you grew up on mixtapes or memes, you know something’s off—and you’re not here to vibe your way through the apocalypse.

If you’ve got grit in your gut and a mandate on your life, you’re in the right place. We don’t echo here—we take ground.


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Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Christy Narsi

“But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That’s why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9–10

We’ve Been
Taught This Verse Backward

If you’ve ever heard this verse used to tell you to embrace suffering for suffering’s sake, you’re not alone. Many people interpret Paul’s words to mean we should enjoy pain, hardship, and persecution—as though being crushed is somehow the goal.

​But that’s not what Paul was saying at all.

He wasn’t delighting in the pain. He delighted that grace met him in every position. His position looked like weakness to the world but from God’s perspective, Paul’s position hadn’t changed anything.

When Paul was strong in the Lord, he was strong in the Lord. When Paul was weak in circumstances, he was still strong in the Lord.

​Paul needed God to remind him that nothing had changed.

The Secret Battle Cry in “Delight”

In Aramaic, the word Paul used for delight is tseva—a word that originally carried a dual meaning. Yes, it meant to take pleasure in, but it also meant a battle cry—a declaration to fight to the finish for the pleasure of your King*.

When Paul said he “took pleasure” in weaknesses, insults, and persecutions, he wasn’t surrendering to survival mode. He was rising up. He was saying, “This is my moment to fight—and my King already guaranteed the win.”​

Grace Isn’t Sympathy—It’s Strategy.

The word grace (charis) means God’s enablement—His supernatural strength to do what we could never do on our own. When God told Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you,” He wasn’t offering survival; He was offering capacity.

Grace isn’t about surviving suffering; isn’t just enough to endure—it’s the leverage to advance. That’s why Paul could take pleasure in being “weak.” Because he realized he was never actually in a position of weakness.

Paul understood something we’re rarely taught: grace is strategy mode. Grace doesn’t show up to soften the blow—it shows up to sharpen your strategy.

The moment Paul aligned with heaven’s perspective, everything shifted.

  • He stopped enduring the battle and started commanding it.
  • He stopped managing the mess and started mastering the moment.
  • He stopped asking how to get out—and started asking how to move forward.
  • He stopped holding on and started taking ground.
  • He stopped surviving his story and started shaping it.

When Paul saw what God saw, he stopped reacting—and started strategizing.

The Ultimate Battle Strategy

The Greek word for perfected—as in, “My power is made perfect in weakness”—means complete, brought to its intended goal. God’s power reaches its intended goal when we stop asking him to remove the thorns and start using our faith to make the thorns of no effect.

And here’s the big kicker: Paul’s weakness didn’t activate God’s power. His agreement with God did.

When Paul stopped seeing himself as powerless and started seeing himself as positioned—grace could do its work. The moment he aligned with God’s view of his situation, he shifted from victim to strategist.

That’s why Paul’s “thorn” couldn’t stop him.

So What Does This Mean For Us?

There’s been plenty of debate about what Paul’s “thorn in the flesh” was. Many preachers say, “We don’t really know.”

But reading the verse in context paints a different picture.

In all other places in scripture where a “thorn in the flesh” is used it relates to people. Paul’s “thorn” wasn’t sickness—it was people. The haters, naysayers, and rabble-rousers who used their free will and free speech to slander and torment him. God didn’t remove them, because removing their free will would violate His nature.

But He did something better.

God gave Paul grace that was more than enough—grace to rise above the torment, outthink his critics, and outlast and outclass every attack.

​Because where sin abounds, grace abounds more.

About That “Thorn”

It means when you’re surrounded—by stress, criticism, loss, or limitation—you’re not actually in a weak position. You’re in a strength zone.

​You’re standing in the same space Paul did:​

  • Empowered by the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead.
  • Backed by the same promises that never fail.
  • Armed with the same authority to fight for your King.

But your weakness isn’t your qualification—the qualifier is your agreement that weakness is a strength zone for you.

​You’re not losing ground—you’re taking it.​​

Unstoppable looks good on you ;)

If this message hit home, you’ll love my book From Prosperity to Providence—a bold, truth-telling guide to disentangle success and suffering so you can get life to work!
​www.prosperitytoprovidence.com

*https://www.chaimbentorah.com/2019/01/hebrew-aramaic-word-study-a-good-kind-of-pain/

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Hey friend! I'm Christy.

I back women who are done watching the world burn while being told to “just journal about it".

Women like you who are done with the fluff, built for the fight, and ready to rebuild what culture broke.

Whether you grew up on mixtapes or memes, you know something’s off—and you’re not here to vibe your way through the apocalypse.

If you’ve got grit in your gut and a mandate on your life, you’re in the right place.

We don’t echo here—we take ground.

Copyright © 2025 ProsperityToProvidence.com | All Rights Reserved.

None of the content (videos, descriptions, links, eBooks and comments) created by me, Christy Narsi, is medical advice or a treatment plan and is intended for general education and demonstration purposes only. This content is not intended to diagnose or to treat any psychological or physical health condition, and nothing contained in the content should be misconstrued as such. Every individual who follows these teachings are free-willed agents of the belief in their own hearts. I cannot guarantee your personal results will be the same as mine as I cannot know the inner workings of your heart the way God does.

Copyright © 2025 ProsperityToProvidence.com | All Rights Reserved.

None of the content (videos, descriptions, links, eBooks and comments) created by me, Christy Narsi, is medical advice or a treatment plan and is intended for general education and demonstration purposes only. This content is not intended to diagnose or to treat any psychological or physical health condition, and nothing contained in the content should be misconstrued as such. Every individual who follows these teachings are free-willed agents of the belief in their own hearts. I cannot guarantee your personal results will be the same as mine as I cannot know the inner workings of your heart the way God does.

Copyright © 2025 ProsperityToProvidence.com | All Rights Reserved.

None of the content (videos, descriptions, links, eBooks and comments) created by me, Christy Narsi, is medical advice or a treatment plan and is intended for general education and demonstration purposes only. This content is not intended to diagnose or to treat any psychological or physical health condition, and nothing contained in the content should be misconstrued as such. Every individual who follows these teachings are free-willed agents of the belief in their own hearts. I cannot guarantee your personal results will be the same as mine as I cannot know the inner workings of your heart the way God does.